Emotional Eating…What Is It?

alexis • October 12, 2022

Human beings don’t always eat just to satisfy physical hunger. In fact, some people turn to food for comfort as a way of dealing with negative emotions. Some of these emotions can include feeling stress, boredom, anger, fear, sadness, anxiety, loneliness, resentment, and shame. Eating food as a comfort when things get tough and we’re feeling those negative emotions is referred to as emotional eating or stress eating. It is not a solution to the challenges we face in our daily lives and only provides temporary relief.

In order to address the issue of emotional eating, it is important to understand the triggers behind it. Major life events or even hassles of daily life can trigger negative emotions and lead to emotional eating. This in turn affects any weight-loss efforts or makes us gain more weight. Triggers that might contribute to emotional eating include relationship conflicts, work or other stressors, fatigue, financial pressures, and health problems.

The Emotional Eating Cycle

There are many reasons why eating becomes a way to cope with negative emotions. Eating releases dopamine, which is a brain chemical that makes us feel good. When our emotions become tied to our eating habits, emotional eating can become an automatic behavior. The more that food is used to cope, the more established the habit becomes. Food acts as a distraction from feeling negative emotions. This creates an unhealthy cycle and one that is hard to break.

In order to break free from the cycle of emotional eating, you need to learn how to distinguish between emotional and physical hunger. Emotional hunger can be powerful and can be easily mistaken for physical hunger. Here are some ways to tell them apart:

  • Emotional hunger comes on suddenly
  • Emotional hunger craves specific comfort foods
  • Emotional hunger often leads to mindless eating
  • Emotional hunger isn’t satisfied once you’re full
  • Emotional hunger isn’t located in the stomach
  • Emotional hunger can lead to regret, guilt, or shame

How Do You Overcome Emotional Eating?

There are steps you can take to control cravings brought on by negative emotions. Here are some tips to try:

  • Keep a food diary
    • Write down what, how much, when, how you feel, and how hungry you are. This will help you see any patterns between your mood and food.
  • Try to keep stress at a minimum
    • Although this is easier said than done, try implementing a stress management technique such as yoga, meditation, or deep breathing.
  • Hunger reality check
    • Allow cravings to have time to pass. If your stomach is not rumbling, you’re probably not hungry.
  • Get support
    • Lean on family or friends for support. If you lack a good support system, emotional eating will be hard to fight. You can also try a support group.
  • Fight boredom
    • Distract yourself and find a healthier behavior like taking a walk, watching a movie, playing with a pet, listening to music, reading a book, or calling a friend.
  • Take away temptation
    • Comfort foods that are hard to resist should not be kept in your home. Also, try not to shop for groceries when your emotions seem to be negative.
  • Snack healthy
    • Keep your kitchen stocked with fresh fruit and vegetables. Then, if you feel an urge to eat between meals, you will have a healthy snack available.
  • Learn from setbacks
    • Forgive yourself and start fresh the next day. Try to learn from your experience and make a plan on how you can prevent it in the future.

Emotional eating can affect anyone at any given time. People of all genders, ages, and life stages can experience emotional eating. When a person doesn’t have other ways to cope with negative emotions, emotional eating can become a problem. Food may feel like a way to cope but working through the feelings that trigger hunger is important. If you are feeling uncomfortable with your eating habits, reach out for help. Contact Anchorage Bariatrics at 907-644-8446 or visit  www.anchoragebariatrics. com. We’re here to support you!

If you would like more information about how Anchorage Bariatrics can help you with a customized weight loss solution, would like to view our free informational seminar, or attend our  Monthly Support Group , please call us at  907-644-THIN .

Alternatives to Emotional Eating

  • Depressed or lonely: call someone, play with your pet, look at a favorite photo
  • Anxious: dance to your favorite song, squeeze a stress ball, take a walk
  • Exhausted: drink some hot tea, take a bath, wrap up in a blanket
  • Bored: read a book, watch a comedy show, explore outdoors, find an activity you enjoy

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Black Bean Tostadas

  • 2 (15-oz.) cans of black beans, rinsed and drained
  • 8 tostadas
  • 2 c. shredded pepper jack
  • Avocado, sliced
  • Hot sauce

  1. Preheat oven to 350°. In a small saucepan over medium heat, add beans and 1 cup of water. Bring to a simmer and let simmer until beans are warmed through, about 10 minutes. Smash with a wooden spoon until most of the beans are smashed with some whole remaining. Add more water as needed to help create a smoother consistency.
  2. Meanwhile, place tostadas on a large baking sheet and sprinkle cheese evenly over each. Bake until cheese is melted, about 5 minutes.
  3. Top tostadas with beans, avocado slices, and hot sauce.

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